Gotta be hot, and not dumb or crazy.
As far as men, just someone who is somewhat like me, easy going, drama free, and horny for sex, as far as women, just someone the same but will not try to control everything. At this time I am chatting online only. He could care less and doesn't appreciate or understand a woman wants to feel sexy and not just convenient pussy when they have a hard dick ( which obviously had zero to do with me turning him on but some webcam chick half his age and superficial interaction).